Was 9:30 p.m., I was exhausted after finishing part of a conference in the city of Miami.

Suddenly a gentlemam mid-size, bulky hair and tan color, with a crestfallen face, timid shoulders and with an appearance to be submerged in sadness and a deep depression, with his smooth and cut voice and a tone of complaint and annoyance he began to try to explain me how sad had been his life, because he had already went three times through the experience of marriage and all of them had been a failure.

In a second his words became rough and searched carefully, everything to excuse himself of all the marital ruptures, especially of the last one, his complaints became every time more accusing, like trying to said to me, or wanting to convince me that it was not his fault, that it was only bad luck or because the woman had an emotional problem that made her leave the house, or simply because she did not wants to deal with the problem.

Immediately I take the lead and cut him off steeply, saying to him: “Hey, brother, wait a minute! Your ex wifves didn’t have all the guilt, here the problem is you!”.
Well, that was like a bucket full of ice water, the man so humble, with a recipient heart, smiled and told me: “You know sister? It is true and while you were giving the conference, God made me understand my problem more and more”.

I put in his hands information how to obtaining the package I offer for "How To Break A Circle Of Violence"[*], since there are many cases where people are used to be mistreated that they look for a spouse to continue the cycle, somebody to continues mistreating them and if they don’t find one, then they become one.

Are you ready to blame no other than you?

Elsa Tapia ©2008 Panal Ministry

[*] Available only is Spanish